第二部分 欧美习俗(二)
6. In School (2) 在学校里(2)
It is bad manners in the classroom, as elsewhere, to look at anything your neighbor has written, or to try to see what mark he has received without asking his permission. It is good manners for students to help each other. In examinations and in certain kinds of written work intended to measure the pupil’s own progress it is not only dishonest to help or to ask help from another, but it is thoughtless of real values.
It is bad manners to laugh at another’s mistakes or accident. You can realize why, when you think how you feel yourself when laughed at. It is very bad manners to laugh at any unfortunate student who has a peculiarity of walking or talking or any deformity of body. Such persons should be treated with real kindness. Make them feel that you do not notice their misfortune.
Most teachers are sincerely anxious to help their students in any way they can, and it is polite for the students to help the teacher (especially if the teacher is a woman and the student a young man). Sometimes the blackboard needs erased, or the door or window shut or opened. Sometimes there are papers to collect and distribute. This kind of help is always appreciated.
Good manners are especially important in the library. The general rule is: Do not do anything that might disturb your neighbor. Scraping chairs and shuffling feet are impolite, as well as talking or laughing while others are trying to work. If you have a cold it is better for you to take out a book and read it at home. Comprehension Questions:
1. In examinations, it is ______ to help or to ask help from another. A. clever B. foolish C. dishonest D. good manners 2. If one of your classmates is lame, ______
3. Young boy students should be ______ to help their teachers, especially when they are women.
A. lucky enough B. sorrowful enough C. slightly happy D. polite enough
4. In the library, when others are working, you should not ______ A. keep silent. B. read and write.
C. scraping the chair. D. open and close the book. 5. If you have a cold it is better for you to ______ A. stay at home. B. go to school. C. read in the library. D. read outside. (CCDCA)
7. When One Should Arrive and Leave
到达和离开的时间
For Meals
You should arrive at the time indicated in the invitation or within five to seven minutes of that time. If you are very early, walk around the block or wait in your car or downstairs in the lobby. In this country the hostess is also likely to be the cook. Give her those precious last moments in peace to compose her soul, don't arrive before the time you were asked for. If you find you are going to be late, it is a real help to your hostess if you telephone and tell her so. She may turn off the stove and be grateful to you for not having spoiled supper by your lateness.
Cocktail Parties, Receptions, Teas
Invitations for such events usually say \---5: 00 to 7: 00 p. m., for example. This means you can come at any time that suits you between those hours. You don't have to leave on the dot of time indicated, but should go within a half hour at the latest.
For a Dance
It is usual to arrive half an hour to an hour after it starts. There is nothing drearier than a dance that has not yet begun, unless you are the true dancer who likes the floor uncrowded and the orchestra fresh!
For the Theatre
Plan to arrive at least ten minutes before curtain time. You will want to take off your coat, read the program, and settle down before the play begins.
Weddings, Funerals, Public Lectures, Sports Events
Be there about ten minutes before the specified time so that you will be seated and relaxed by the time it starts.
Business Appointments
Arrive exactly at the moment of appointment or a few minutes ahead. It is considered a discourtesy to keep a busy person waiting. If he keeps you waiting, however, take it in good grace. The person whose office is the scene of the meeting takes precedence. If you do not want to give him this advantage, arrange to meet in your office or on some \Comprehension Questions:
1. If you have arrived very early for the meal you should ______ A. go into the room at once.
B. walk around the block or wait in your car. C. wait downstairs in the lobby. D. both B and C.
2. If you are going to be late for the meal, you'd better ______ A. stay at home and not go to the meal. B. telephone your hostess and tell her so. C. keep silent all the time. D. not telephone your hostess.
3. When you are going to a dance, it’s usual to arrive ______ A. half an hour to an hour late.
B. five minutes before the dance is over. C. two hours after the dance starts. D. at the end of the dance.
4. If you want to go to the theatre, you should plan to arrive ______ A. at least ten minutes before curtain time B. at least ten minutes after curtain time. C. at least five minutes before curtain time. D. exactly when the play starts.
5. If you go to weddings, funerals, public lectures and sports events, you'd better be there ______
A. about ten minutes after the specified time. B. half an hour after the time. C. from 5: 00 to 7: 00 p. m.
D. about ten minutes before the specified time. (DBAAD)
8. How to Give Gifts Among the Westerners
送礼也要讲场合
You should be careful in the giving of gifts. Never give a gift in a job interview or prior to a business meeting. Gifts are usually given during special holidays, or as an acknowledgment for special invitations or events.
At the time of arriving to a special event or social gathering, you may present your gift to the host once the introductions are made. With gift giving, a few rules are in order: Be modest with your gift; do not buy expensive or extravagant gifts.
Perishable gifts, such as a special food from your country, a bottle of wine, candy and flowers, are best if you do not personally know the host very well, but be certain that your gift will not require immediate attention. Your host will be very busy, and you should avoid adding another task to his or her evening. You can usually say something like, “I thought you would like this a little later.” when you offer your gift.
Be careful of giving alcohol; a bottle of wine is usually all right if you know your host drinks wine, but hard liquor (whisky, scotch, etc) should only be given as gifts only when you know the host and are certain that they would welcome such a gift. Flowers are good, but remember: roses are for personal relationships. Do not give roses to everybody. Cut flowers are nice if they are in a vase. A small cultural gift from your country is usually very appropriate. Make certain your gift is packaged nicely, with a nice card attached to it. Comprehension Questions: (True or False)
1. In America, it is generally considered impolite to give someone a gift. ( ) 2. Gifts should be given out before a business meeting. ( )
3. When you offer someone a gift, you should be too proud of it. ( )
4. When you give roses as a gift to someone, you should be careful enough. ( ) (FFTT)
9. Eating Etiquette in the United States
美国人请客吃饭的礼节
You are what you eat, according to an old American saying. For the rules of business etiquette, you are not only what you eat, but also how you eat.
Every society has its rules governing the all-important custom of breaking bread, and the United States is no exception.
In the business world, breakfasts and lunches are usually the best times for business meals. Dinners are usually reserved for very special occasions or out-of-town guests. Occasionally, if you are hosting the meal, and your guest is staying at a local hotel, then an afternoon coffee and tea meeting in the hotel lobby can be very useful.
If you are the host of a meal, you should follow a few important rules: In scheduling the meal, never ask the guest where they would like to eat. Instead, pick two restaurants, pick two different hours, and offer your guest those options.
A day before the meal, check with your guest to confirm the date, time and location.
Arrive at the restaurant early enough to pay for the bill ahead of time. It is best that the meal's bill is attended to without your guest present.
Once your guests arrive, you should appear as if you have just arrived. Do not order a drink until your guests have all arrived.
Greet your guest warmly with a handshake when he or she arrives. Keep your coat on until they have also arrived.
Take the worst seat. Offer your guest his or her choice, but in no case should your guest be facing a mirror or the bathroom or kitchen doors.
You should set the tone of the meal: You should offer your guests the opportunity to order a cocktail or appetizer to start if you feel that is appropriate. Do not order alcohol if your guest abstains. Offer your guest suggestions for food. Order as many courses as does your guest so that you start and finish at the same time.
Offer your guest coffee and dessert, but do not insist. Respect their dietary needs and desires, and you should follow suit.
If you are a guest, here are some important rules to know:
Never be late. Always arrive at least five, but no more than 10, minutes prior to your engagement.
Keep your voice low and pleasant; follow the tone set by your host as to the ordering of alcohol and the discussion of business.
Keep your personal accessories in your back at your feet. Do not overload your table setting with your sunglasses, electronic devices, handbags, etc.
If you have a cell phone or beeper, turn them off, unless you have a situation you must attend to, in which case you should warn your host ahead of time.
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